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The Heartbreak of Recruitment: Families Await News of Loved Ones in Ukraine

The anguish of families waiting at recruitment centers highlights the toll of Ukraine's prolonged conflict.

By Cassandra Vinograd and Oleksandr ChubkoSource: nytimes.com1 min read
The Heartbreak of Recruitment: Families Await News of Loved Ones in Ukraine
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In brief

As Ukraine struggles to find recruits amidst severe troop shortages, loved ones face heartbreaking separations at military gathering points in Kyiv.

Outside a recruitment center on the outskirts of Kyiv, a cold winter's night envelops a gathering of anxious families. Overstuffed plastic bags fill the trembling hands of those waiting, each bag containing items for men who may soon be deployed to the front lines of war. “Where’s my father? Where’s my father?” a boy in a camouflage coat asks as he leans against the large metal gate, while his mother tries to comfort him by urging patience. Nearby, two women cling to each other, tears weaving through their whispered conversations. Svitlana Vakar stands at the back of the crowd, her sorrow palpable as she holds her grandson, Maksym, close to her chest. Wiping away tears, she adjusts the puffer jacket that adorns the two-year-old, giving him a tender kiss on the head. Just that morning, Maksym’s father was taken by recruiting officers as he headed to work, leaving behind nothing but a fleeting message of his new fate. As he awaits processing at this military assembly point, the boy's mother grapples with the reality of separation. “Why take him like a dog? Not allowing him to say goodbye to family, to kids,” she cries, underscoring the abruptness of their separation. Three years into Russia’s full-scale invasion, the landscape of enlistment has drastically changed. At the war's outset, recruitment centers buzzed with eager volunteers. Now, as casualties mount and the prospect of combat looms larger, men do not arrive willingly; they wait to receive their draft papers or desperately evade recruiters. The emotional toll of this ongoing conflict continues to reverberate through Ukrainian families, as the waiting game unfolds outside the gates of uncertainty.

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