The groundbreaking dating show Latey, akin to The Bachelor, has sparked intense conversations on traditional courtship in Ethiopia, featuring diverse women and their challenges as they navigate love and competition.
Contestants Compete for Love as Ethiopia Embraces Bold Reality TV Show

Contestants Compete for Love as Ethiopia Embraces Bold Reality TV Show
Latey: Looking for Love challenges dating norms in Ethiopia, pulling millions to watch as ten women vie for one man’s heart.
In a captivating twist on traditional dating shows, Latey: Looking for Love has become a phenomenon in Ethiopia, amassing over 620,000 views since its finale. Unlike its Western counterparts like Love Island and The Bachelor, this Ethiopian series adds a unique cultural lens to the dating show format. Content creator Bethel Getahun emerged victorious in a competition where ten women showcased their personalities and skills, vying for the affection of 38-year-old Ethiopian-American Messiah Hailemeskel, who currently resides in Dallas.
Broadcast on YouTube, Latey has sparked lively discussions about courtship customs in Ethiopia, where dating is typically a private affair. Bethel emphasized the show’s intention to highlight diverse women from various backgrounds, and not merely to provoke controversy. While some critics, like Ethiopian vlogger Semere Kassaye, argue that the show objectifies women, Bethel insists that Latey is about sharing authentic stories.
Among the contestants are women from different professions, including hotel managers, flight attendants, and accountants. Their emotional narratives resonated with viewers; one contestant, Vivian, opened up about fleeing Eritrea and missing her mother, while Rahel discussed dropping out of school to support her family. By shedding light on these diverse experiences, Latey serves not just as entertainment but as a reflection of modern Ethiopian society.
Despite some disagreements with traditionalist views, producer Metasebia Yoseph clarifies that the show is not hyper-sexualized and adheres to innocent themes of dating. Viewers have expressed excitement about the innovative concept, urging the production team to consider more adaptations of reality formats in Ethiopia. Encouraged by the show’s success, plans for a second season are already underway, potentially featuring a reversal of roles where a single woman chooses from male contestants.
As for the romantic journey between Bethel and Messiah, it remains uncertain as they navigate the challenges of long-distance dating. Yet, Bethel cherishes the friendships she formed during the competition, referring to her fellow contestants as her "sorority." She believes Latey has set a new standard in Ethiopian media for the representation of women, showcasing their multifaceted lives and romantic aspirations. It's a groundbreaking moment, offering a fresh perspective on love and relationships in Ethiopia's evolving cultural landscape.