At 10:18 on Monday, Erin Patterson was led from courtroom four inside Melbourne's Supreme Court building to begin a life sentence in prison.

Her slow shuffle took her directly past two rows of wooden benches squeezed full of journalists, each scrutinising Patterson's exit for any final detail.

Of those watching her was Ian Wilkinson, the only survivor of Patterson's infamous mushroom meal in 2023, a cruel murder plot the judge decried as an enormous betrayal.

For months, Mr. Wilkinson had walked in and out of court without uttering a public word. He always wore a black sleeveless jacket to keep warm in the winter chill, having never fully recovered from the death cap mushrooms that took his wife and two best friends. But on Monday he paused on the courthouse steps to speak to media for the first time. He calmly thanked police who brought to light the truth of what happened to three good people and the lawyers who tried the case for their hard work and perseverance.

Wilkinson described the silent void left in his home since the tragic event, saying, The silence in our home is a daily reminder. There’s nobody to share in life’s daily tasks, which has taken much of the joy out of pottering around the house and the garden. Nobody to debrief with at the end of the day.”

Additionally, he expressed frustration at the intense media coverage. The intense media coverage has left me second-guessing every word I say, worried about who I can trust with my thoughts and feelings,” he added.

Wilkinson concluded his remarks with a sincere plea for kindness, saying, Our lives and the life of our community depends on the kindness of others. I would like to encourage everybody to be kind to each other. His message resonated as a call for compassion as he and his family navigate the intricate process of healing and grief.